Thursday, September 6, 2012

DAY TWENTY NINE - oh, what a relief it is! (to be away from Grimsby and in a safe haven)


We did a little food shopping, then looked into a new cell phone for Martin. Katya drew me a picture of her and me and Ollie sitting on a nice large bee flying through the air. (Ollie didn’t like the rendering of the drawing because it appeared to him as if he were sitting on the front of the bee’s face, flying backwards, so he smoudged out the ink on his face the best he could. One of those sibling squabbley things, you know.) That’s me in the middle, with Katya holding on to me for dear life, and Ollie precariously astride in the front. Just did the family and kid relaxing time-off-from-work thing mostly. Hey, that’s what I’m all about!

Leah made sweet potato, lentil and chard curry. Oh, my gosh! And as if that weren’t entirely enough, we topped that off with homemade, warm brownie squares, loaded with chunks of several different chocolate candy bars -- with ice cream ẚ la mode, of course. (Oh, sorry, didn’t you get some?!) Leah tells me she’s been working on perfecting that recipe for a while.

Introducing a new character into the story: during the last month or so Martin and Leah have become dear friends with a young dad they first met when he showed up at their Harborne Ward – which meant, of course, that I became his instant, adopted friend, as well. Jesse is a young guy with three little kids who left his family temporarily back in Oregon to come and work on his doctorate, in linguistics, at the University of Birmingham. In fact, he is also doing some guest-professor lecturing, so the department has arranged for and is paying for all of his living arrangements while he is here for six weeks. His specialty is one that the linguistics area of the university is especially keen on. Lucky for Jesse – except for the missing your family part. He tells me that he Skypes them at least once or twice every single day from up in the room where he lives.

This is the first I’ve been privy to the hilarious, witty, lighter side of Martin. (It is easy to see why Leah fell madly in love with him back all those many years ago.) You should just see what goes on when the lively tomfoolery between those two get warmed up. It is play on word paradise, for sure. (“Oh, Jesse, you are SO “pun”ny!) The kids adore him, too. He is a true dad, in every sense of the word, and they can naturally feel it. It must be very difficult to be so very far away from one’s young family (the youngest is less than six months old) for so long. I know that having this almost daily interaction with the Ward family has got to help a lot!

As soon as the kidlets were off to bed, it was a rousing round of cards between the four of us, till we all cried “uncle!”


Ollieism_
 I’m a hungro!
So, what’s a hungro?
Someone who’s hungry and eats a lot all day long.

Profound Ollie question, said in an especially profound voice – a British voice, at that: Is England a jungle of trees, daddy?


Photos_

1- Olympic Google doodle – patriotic 50-year-old, Roald Bradstock, won silver     
2- family of bees, with one disgruntled brother bee

3- little felt Dalmatian Katya created just for me, in anticipation of my arrival – well, did I feel loved or what!
4- Wardy family @ dinner with Jesse & guest (that’s me at my place taking the shot)