Friday, November 30, 2012

DAY HUNDRED FORTY THREE - Thanksgiving at the Farleys + + + + (alternative subheading – me n’ my Ella, revisited)


Still feeling kind of poorly due to allergies – third day straight. Even with medication, my nose is a sieve and there’s something going on there in the back of my throat – swollen; congested, I guess you might say. I have to admit that I am finally constrained to have an abundance of sympathy for ‘allergy sufferers.’ It is nothing you think much about until it is suddenly ‘you!’ See if you can relate to this: put your hand in a cupping shape a couple inches from your nose-mouth area whilst making this low ‘aaaaagh’ sound. Kind of knit your brows a little, at the same time. Know what I mean? Get the picture?! Hard to put a finger on – you just don’t feel at the top of your game.

I was listening to a fun radio program on BBC4 this morning – kind of like Car Talk on PRI, except for the small difference in that this one is all about everything having to do with gardening. Audience members ask related questions and then each in a panel of experts gives their often humorous, but well-educated, answers. This week the consensus was that when people remember the 2012 growing season, they will think weird! (Leah had told me that prior to my arriving in England the second week in July, it had been one of the wettest summers ever – an epoch season, one panelist termed it.) Because of the profuse precipitation, fruit yields have been especially low and there has been a preponderance of blight compared to past years. (Heard as well that, also due to the weather, honey production has been reduced drastically – with only 3/4s - 4/5s of the usual yield going to be available.) Though autumn doesn’t officially end till winter begins on December 21, I’d say it pretty much has pretty much come to an end in my book.

I’ve noticed the strangest phenomenon here in the waning weeks of autumn that I just can’t get over – it is the sun being so extremely low in the sky at an especially early hour of the day. For instance, today, before it was even noon, the sun was where it would be at 4pm (on a winter’s day even!) at home. It is SO weird to me - how it looks. At least I know at this point that it all has to do with how far north the British Isles are – I guess I just never realized it before. (Now, HOW early it gets dark is a whole other weird issue altogether!)

Also atmospheric-related, today’s weather news continues to predict that we are in for blizzards and severe inclement weather through February, that temps will hit the lowest they’ve been in a hundred years. Oh, joy! Just last week a woman was drowned in Somerset (southern part of the country) when her automobile became submerged as she tried to cross a swollen stream that had engulfed the roadway. It will be interesting if these weather predictions are realized – certainly flooding has been a major concern. Leah tells me that when it snows in England, EVERYTHING shuts down – schools, work, trains, buses, you name it! Because it is such a rare occurrence they just do not have the means to deal with it – no snow removal equipment or anything like that!

A co-worker of Leah’s called yesterday and said if their baby wasn’t born that very night, his wife would be induced the next day, and could she possibly come in and cover his classes. Auntie Honey Bee to the rescue! I spent last night on the couch so I’d be ready to go (as the care giver) as they handed off the goods on their way out the door at 7:20.  Ella’s crying was that frantic crying kids put on just as their parents are leaving them with the babysitter. After that, happy all the while. We played, ate, and walked up to one of Auntie Honey Bee’s favorite diversions - Weoly Castle Square. Ella had a little nap while I looked around. She is at a really fun age – 18 months. Either I’ve forgotten, or I have grossly underestimated little guys – it never ceases to amaze me how this little sprite knows EXACTLY what it is she wants. Even though she doesn’t always have the words to express what it is, she KNOWS – and is happy to keep working with you ‘patiently’ until you’re able to figure it out. There aren’t a whole lot of more fun things to do then spend it with kids!!

On Sunday Amanda invited me to come to her and Nathaniel’s home to share in the Thanksgiving dinner they were having for the missionaries. (A Sunday before this she had been asking me when Thanksgiving was exactly – her guestimate had been off by about a week! But that’s okay - it’s the thought that counts, right?! I have noticed that many British persons (if they’re aware of Thanksgiving at all), though they DO associate the holiday with a Thursday, are under the false impression, for some reason, that it occurs the last week of November. I’m sure the missionaries were just pleased for turkey and stuffing (sorry, no pumpkin pie this time – rather a surrogate apple crumble), regardless of the exact date on which it got celebrated! (I was thinking it was awful nice of the Farley’s to go to all this effort to feed the missionaries, and the longer Amanda and I talked about it the more impressed I became. It seems that as her husband is the Ward Mission leader it has been their agenda to feed the missionaries EVERY Wednesday night. Wow, that’s quite an undertaking, and a brilliant example of a good helpmeet for you!. They see it as a means for Nathaniel to stay close to the pulse of the missionary work in the ward – sounds like a good approach to me!

I walked myself in the cold and dark to my 530 appointment on Durley Dean Road (does that sound ‘other-than’ American, or what?!), till a block before I arrived when who should I meet up with but Elders Eckelt (London) and Gorougi (Germany). Our easy chatting warmed me as we finished the last leg of our journey. I thought for sure I was going to be the last one to arrive, but actually we were the first. Mmm, sure did smell good! Soon Elders Steel (Utah) and Gunderson (Texas) and Sisters Wheatley (Provo) and Mὒller (Germany) arrived. Let the festivities begin!

After a delicious meal – Amanda had really outdone herself! – and a commitment from Elder Eckelt to write a list of five persons to pray about who we felt could benefit from the gospel in their lives, the missionaries hurried off to prior commitments and Nathaniel went to work on some chemical engineering homework. I was happy to spend the time with Amanda and offered to help with the tilting stack of plates and serving bowls, grimy pots and pans. With the dishes out of the way, she showed me some samples of her innovative fabric posters she’d told me about when we met on campus for lunch that she uses to augment her presentations– so convenient to bundle up and stick in your suitcase. And then, following that, we were all set to play some Phase Ten I had brought along, before Amanda had to get started on a good night’s sleep with plans of leaving early in the morning for a workshop. However, in the end we never did get to that game of cards as Amanda began telling me about their wedding a year before and at my coaxing brought out her computer and showed me photos of their special day. A thoroughly satisfying and enjoyable evening – Amanda feels to me like another fine daughter.


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  1- autumnal mask
  2- ring of yellow, orange, red and brown, with pint-sized conker for a center
  3- illustration of the world, demonstrating how once you travel north pass the British Isles,
there’s not a whole lot left other than the North Pole, ergo early dark
  4-8 Ella Bella
     bundled walker
     exhausted shopper
     experienced texter
     distracted talker
     what Leah refers to as square-eyed (you KNOW what’s at the other end!)
  9- Thanksgiving feast #2
10 – BEFORE: my camera lens having recently come inside following my invigorating walk. Thankfully, it was none the worse for wear once it got warmed up. (Can't necessarily say the same for me, unfortunately . . .)
10- AFTER: playful missionaries caught at a bad camera angle (Ah: one elder’s mom sent him those fun plates and napkins to use for his Thanksgiving dinner – trusting in faith that he would have one!)
11- up-and-coming, versatile fabric poster, aka poster session at home (see Day 134)
12- now you see it – now you don’t!




                                            Great Britain just here ↓