Monday, February 25, 2013

DAY TWO HUNDRED TWENTY SIX - our children's children

More staff on board now – finally! Has taken a lot of the pressure off of me. (Having bedding ready to go has made an immense difference! Thank you, Dave!) Life is a lot more enjoyable. For instance, today, after working till mid-afternoon, I even took a nice walk down the beach on my way to do a little shopping. Had a couple things in mind I’ve been needing.

It’s amazing what you can find out if you keep your eyes and ears open – like that we will be performing Fawlty Towers this evening for dinner – no formal announcement ever made – to me, anyway; or that the entire family is on to the fact that Charlotte took money out of the till in the bar, to do a little gambling (that intoxicating diversion that can lead to a very addictive habit.)  Celeste had been asking me if I knew what had happened to Charlotte Friday evening. As I think back on it I remember her saying to me and Chloe that she was going to the shops (not exactly sure what that referred to) and would be back shortly. As I think about it now, that did seem like an’ out-of-character’ thing for her to say, had never heard her go out of her way to say she was going anywhere to me and then returning. I guess she and Celeste had plans for later but then she never showed back up. That was the night I helped Chloe get to sleep.

Subsequently money was found to be missing from the bar, and there was the most of the family in the office searching through CTV footage where the truth was revealed. (Seems curious to me that persons, who OUGHT to know better, find themselves in compromising situations in specific regions of the hotel where the all-seeing eye of the camera are known to be operating. I suppose desperation leads to unwise measures. (Loraine had told me how before I came the night porter at the time had been seen to be pouring copious drinks for his friends and then taking money as well. Downright dumb; I mean, come on - if you’re going to be devious, get it right!) All these things came to a head inside my brain – working alongside Celeste who asked me my recollection of Charlotte’s disappearing, followed by quite late one evening going down to get something to eat, finding the kitchen all ablaze, full of family, Charlotte counting over quite a few high-denomination bills to her mom, then several days later hearing Loraine wake Tom next door, quietly asking him what he knew about money disappearing from the till and what he knew about where it had gone – each of these scenarios involving Charlotte. Then today Jack slamming out the door, saying something to his mom like, ‘for once, do more than just take her lame excuses, that you KNOW she’s going to give you.”

But there she is, Charlotte solidly out on the couch, for most of the day, where I could not rouse her to see about her little daughter who someone had placed in the bathtub, up to her ears in suds. I had to go – just like everybody else – and couldn’t be responsible for her wellbeing. I eventually couldn’t stand it and at least got her out, though not dressed. I figured she by herself, or someone else, if she squealed loudly enough, would see about it. Charlotte in bad doodoo with her mom – going through one of her self-destructive phases, as one person put it. Didn’t ever really hear any serious shouting or the usual threats coming from mom when the confrontation finally occurred – life goes on, transgressions unpunished, unresolved.

This afternoon Loraine headed off to Devon, where her former husband and several of her children live – to exchange sons, she said – called out to those waiting in the van, as she headed out the door, that she HAD to be back for Fawlty Towers by dinnertime. From experience I rest assured that she will suddenly appear as Sybil in the restaurant, all smiles, her wig cockeyed on her head, her clothing askew. In fact when I heard her arrive all in a rush, she was shouting for one of her daughters to come and assist her in dressing. It was me that heard her and went to her rescue – zip up that stretched out zipper, try to pull out a blonde lock of her own hair through the reddish-brown Sybil wig.

Isn’t it the truth that working alongside another person is the perfect venue for getting to know them – REALLY getting to know them – inside and out?! Came across Kiersty, waitress and chambermaid par excellence, up doing the rooms. With her, buzzing in and out, was a young man. ‘Have you met my son?’she asked – her eldest, of three.  So I got to know quiet, diligent Casey, as well. (Another child out for school term break.) The three of us worked closely together all that day. I felt moved at the end of our time together to ask if I could practice on them, that I had a very important message I wanted to share. (Once read a quote from President Eyring that has stayed with me ever since – about sharing the restored gospel. In it he said, paraphrased: one day you will see all the people you have known on the earth and they will know what you know, and they will ask you why you didn’t tell them about the truth. So Kiersty and Casey were good enough to stand in an alcove of the hallways and listen to my gospel ramblings, as they were wanting to get on home. I told Kiersty that that was the first time I have officially shared that information in just such a formal manner. She said that she felt privileged that I had thought enough of them for them to be the first. (On occasions such as this, you wish you could have been more succinct, more well-spoken, and ask yourself ‘did my meager words make a difference?’)

Lots of fun at the Fawlty Towers’ dinner tonight. It is half term (school holiday break) so many families with children have booked in on Groupon. We will have similar extravaganzas on Thursday, Friday AND Saturday, plus breakfasts. (By Friday the hotel will be entirely full.) Oh, man, I’m REALLY earning my pay! (Never thought coming to England would result in the kickoff of my second career – acting!) A bit coquettish this evening – almost got me into trouble. I was telling a nice Scottish gentleman, who I had discovered was a recent widower, that I too was a widow – meaning in his eyes, single. One time as I stopped by the threesome’s table to chat and check on their meal, he remarked that he had recently moved to Weymouth, and was wondering how did I fancy a weekend trip with him to Scotland. Hadn’t been there much, right?! (Just look what you get yourself into: oops, too friendly, too flirty! Kind of tried to avoid that table of three like the plague ever after that!)

Got an email from Richard today, telling me of his amazing connection to Fawlty Towers – voted the best British television comedy series of ALL time – that is, until something better comes along, I guess! Seems his Uncle Bob was the director of the second – last and final – series, each with six episodes.


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1- by the sea
2- hello to you from Weymouth Beach – to demonstrate that I REALLY am here!
3- bathtime follies
4- Loraine in a different wig – a former Facebook profile shot I came upon (I had thought it was her real hair – but no, she assured me. She said someone had told her it made her look 10 years younger – the EXACT words I’d been thinking myself, and I’m not kidding!)
5- Kiersty and Casey, already closer to being a man than his young 15-year old self
6- Kieran and Chloe (aka Chloe with daddy) – I’d include a picture of Chloe’s mommy, Charlotte, but she never will let me capture her image (feels any time I ask that she’s not looking up to the task)
7- photo of Uncle Bob, from his wedding day (WHAT a wedding that must have been!), with his new bride, Richard’s dad’s sister (later divorced), back in the 70s. If you look under images on Google, as well as Wikipedia, you will see that he really is a REAL person. Fun to observe how his styles have changed through the ensuing years!