Sunday, January 13, 2013

DAY HUNDRED EIGHTY SIX - settling in

Today is the anniversary of the day I arrived in England – exactly six months ago – plus the date stamped in my passport at London Heathrow, in immigration, for when I would have to be out of the country, except that I went to visit Andrew in Amsterdam and renewed my visitor’s visa until April 10th (written, and not stamped this time – right there, in bright black ink!).

Don’t even bother thinking anymore about how many days it’s been since I did or didn’t see the sun – just part of the landscape as far as I’m concerned now. I’ve gotten so used to it doesn’t even register how long it’s been since I even THOUGHT of getting out the old sunglasses!

Today I got REALLY serious about inhabiting room 108 – I dredged my mattress topper off of the highest bunk in the box bedroom, spread it out, and claimed my bed to the sea!

An interesting lady – who a) had come to the hotel with the Ayles after church on Sunday when she learned Loraine had offered to give them a ride home to Bridport, and hoped to get one, as well; (she had come there to visit her daughter, though she herself lives outside of London), and b) I had ‘entertained’ along with the Ayles as they waited for Loraine to sort some things out prior to their all leaving – for what ended up being several hours – was in the area and stopped by to visit Loraine. BUT, seeing as how Loraine was not in (gone pretty much every day now, in the throes of house remodeling), she had asked Stacey if I was in – and, yes, I was.

Sylvia is quite the talker, which was just fine, actually, as she ended up telling me her ‘story’ – one of my favorite things to muse over. (As she was leaving – almost three hours later – she confided that many of the things she’d disclosed she had never shared with anyone – and I believe it. Also it seemed to me that the time we spent together had to have been very cathartic for her, and that, besides reveling in the hearing, also made me happy.) The story is way too long to relate in all its glorious detail, so I will just say that she married an American service man who after nine months of courtship took her back with him, a young bride, to Virginia. Her eyes were immediately opened when they arrived as his parents’ house – as, she said, he was one degree removed from being a hillbilly. The sad thing is – and she never mentioned this to her parents – as an enabler, she was marrying a man who already was, a), in the habit of hitting her, and two, an alcoholic, though not yet thirty. (She said that she was convinced that it was things that she’d done that had been the cause of the majority of their problems and trusted that things would change once they got settled in their new home. Yes, she says, I was horribly naïve and innocent.) Twelve years, and three children later, she finally absconded with their offspring and returned to England. Some ten years later the missionaries caught, and taught, her son one day at home when she was at work, and the rest is history - a pretty interesting, colorful lady. (She had remarked on Sunday that as much as she had enjoyed our conversation, she thought, in all honesty, that we probably would never see one another again. She said this AGAIN today – but you just never know, right?!)

Came across a report today that said there’s been a major flu epidemic going on in Boston. Good thing I got MY flu shot two and a half months ago back on Day 110. The article said that emergency rooms have been turning people away due to lack of space, and that one hospital in the area had even set up temporary tent facilities, out of doors, where they could treat people and then send them home to die. (Just kidding - about the dying part!)

This evening Loraine and I had a few of those rare moments alone together – she is always So busy and often with Andy. At one point she thanked me and said how much she really appreciated all that I was doing. That was very nice, and I appreciated her saying so – I do try to help out the best I can. It is always satisfying and rewarding when your efforts are recognized.